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Great topic. Safe sex that is. I remember when I came out 16 years ago HIV/AIDS was still a cause celeb and safe sex as a topic was as common among us queers as anything else we’d chat about. I remember many years ago watching a supposed lesbian sex sex porno. Though it was not [...]

I’ve lived in several places in my life—including a far more sexually progressive Western Europe. Safe sex wasn’t new to me and since I’d had friends lost in the very early days of AIDS, I was quite aware that I needed to do what was necessary to keep my sexual partners and I safe. That [...]

Over the past decade, since I’ve been out, I have almost constantly been involved in long term relationships. There was a short time when I was playing the field and slept with a few different women. I am guilty of never having safe sex with a woman, besides the one or two times [...]

I am married (aka civil unioned) since January 1st of this year.
As such, I do not engage in safe sex with my wife.
However, it’s funny that this should be a topic this month… just yesterday I was in the chat room on butch-femme.com and they were discussing the fact that they won’t sleep with anyone [...]

Specifically safe sex. More specifically, safe lesbian sex. I’ve been out for 10 years. In that time I have heard “Wear a condom” 15 million times. Condoms are given out in almost all the bars, at the gay and lesbian community center, at every gay pride function, etc etc, and on and on. I even [...]